…why of course there’s frustrations, tears, sadness, disappointments, setbacks, EXAMs, pressures, headaches… the list goes on and on.
But I wouldn’t complain, wouldn’t question, wouldn’t feel bad about it. Yet I really want to thank God for His abundant grace, mercies, love, blessings and guidance. I probably won’t made it without Him helping me through each storm of my daily lives. Thank You, Lord!
I experienced loads of great daring adventures with this crazy bunch of friends. Learnt myriads of things and some of which even struck me badly. But I was glad I could grip the chance to journey out my life little by little, bit by bit, whether good or bad. I still remember when it was only the start of 2009 and I was grumbling and wishing that time could pass faster and here it is. Way too FAST! It’s just like a blink of an eye, before we could all realized a year has been gone. Sometimes I do regret for wishing time to go by with such a great pace.
Everyone is changing as time is ticking. And I did notice the changes in me too. Changed for better or for bad? Those who knew me well will understand. I became a lil’ more lazy, naughty, out-going, daring and crazy as well! Muahaha… Hey, of course there’s still quite a lot of things which I changed for a betterment okay! But there’s room for improvements still.
Oh yea, not to mention, I was quite broke this year. Spending the most out of THESE years. Owh noo… And my wishlist gets longer as I grew older! Gosh.. Wonder how much I’d spend starting next year tomorrow. Anyone wants to sponsor me a bit?
Lastly to ALL my beloved friends: Thanks guys, for making my life so meaningful and colourful even when my vision is dark and grey. Love you people to heaps! *Mwahs* =D
Envira I don’t know where to slot your name in! Haha.. She insisted I mention her name. So here you go Envira darling… She’s the one who asked me to write this post (so I just simply blah anything I can), yet she didn’t write for her own, oh wait eventually she did. Weird enough right?
By the way, received this message (and just to share with ya’ll) :
2010is at your doorstep, remember…
Life is SHORT
BREAK THE RULES!
Forgive AND forget quickly
LOVE truly
LAUGH uncontrollably
And never regret anything that made you SMILE.
=)
The time is still ticking, gonna venture into a new year in less than an hour! Woohoo~
Alright, it does seem a little hard to be just with everyone around you all the time. Sometimes, we treat others so nice but we can also throw our bad attitude to certain people. But did we care about how they would feel or think? They are blameless. How would you feel when you are mistreated by someone else? Fun? If you do not wish to be treated badly, then treat everyone else the same.
Advice: Don’t judge. Respect each other with equality.
“Do to others as you would have them do to you.” Luke 6:31
“Be fair to the poor and to orphans. Defend the helpless and everyone in need. Rescue the weak and homeless from the powerful hands of heartless people.” Psalm 82:3-4
Jealousy
Jealousy can be very dangerous. In a sense, it would arouse insecurity, fear, deception, low-esteem, anger, betrayal, distrust, resentment, aggressiveness and more. To be jealous means to live in darkness. Not only you, but the people around you will be dragged into it as well. It is up to you whether to live your day with gratefulness or jealousy, the day still passes as it should. Then, why not choose the positive one and make life a lil’ more meaningful?
Advice: Forgive and tolerate among one another.
“Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; do not fret when men succeed in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes.” Psalms 37:7-8
“Each one should test his own actions. Then he can take pride in himself, without comparing himself to somebody else, for each one should carry his own load.” Galatians 6:4-5
Hatred
This is pretty much related to the ones above. It is always easier to hate than to love. And hatred simply comes from the heart without acknowledgement. Think about the ones you hate. Was it because they did something wrong to you? Was it because the way they talked or acted offended you? Or was it simply because you hate them without any solid reasons? They are God’s precious children, each and every one of them. So who are we to hate? It doesn’t hurt to love but it does hurt to hate. If you’re currently loathing someone, ask yourself.. Are you feeling good inside?
Advice: Learn to love and forgive.
“Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers all wrongs.” Proverbs 10:12
“He who conceals his hatred has lying lips, and whoever spreads slander is a fool.” Proverbs 10:18
Discontentment
Aah… A lot are dissatisfied with their life. You can complain about this and that all day long. Counting your pimples while grumbling bout how others look so much better. Despising the food served in front of you when the homeless kids are craving for food and shelter. Complaining bout the teacher’s teaching skills when those who are eager to learn couldn’t afford to have an education. Staring frustratingly in front of the closet full of clothes not knowing what to wear, when all a beggar at the roadside on a cold night has is but only torn clothes. Murmuring in front of the mirror about your body size, when the malnutrition-kids looked only like a bag of bones. We kept finding faults in everything we could. We are not any unfortunate than them. Accept the blessings that are showered upon you and be thankful for everything even in the deadliest circumstance. Always view things in a positive manner and be satisfied from the bottom of your heart.
Advice: Look to what you have instead of what you’ve lost. Give thanks!
“Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for ye hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.” Hebrews 13:5
“Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” James 1:2-4
Anxieties and Fears
Most of the time, these two factors will block our way to success. When we’re too focused on our worries, we tend to leave out a lot of details which compromise our insights and add on to our problems. We can never achieve victory or a higher level in life when anxieties and fears are there to distract us. And automatically, we will feel discouraged and dismayed. It is also quite impossible to expand the Lord’s kingdom with an uncertain and reluctant heart. So, get rid of them!
Advice: Have faith. Believe in God and yourself.
“Fear not, for I am with you; do not look around you in terror and be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen and harden you to difficulties, yes, I will help you; yes, I will hold you up and retain you with My right hand of rightness and justice.” Isaiah 41:10
“So do not worry or be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will have worries and anxieties of its own. Sufficient for each day is its own trouble.”Matthew 6:34
Selfishness
We always want the best for ourselves. Frequently putting ourselves at the first place, others next. More than often, we neglected the importance to give without expectations, to share without limits and to offer without being self-centered. If we enlarge our visions, we can see that there are thousands who need our sincere help and care. Give earnestly and cease the thoughts for rewards in return. Because if you give, you will receive double blessings. You will be rewarded in Heaven, for each act of kindness and good deeds. Enjoy the joy of giving.
Advice: Give with a heart of sincerity. Putting others first then yourself.
“He who gives to the poor will lack nothing, but he who closes his eyes to them receives many curses.” Proverbs 28:27
“We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves. Each of us should please his neighbor for his good, to build him up. For even Christ did not please himself but, as it is written; “The insults of those who insult you have fallen on me.” Romans 15:1-3
Temper
Temper by human nature is hard to control. At times we would just throw a tantrum at someone. Once it is vented out it’s hard to restrain back. Anger correspondingly leads to bad health. It takes away our happiness, love, peace and joy. Not surprised as it breaks the bond between one another as well. When things go wrong never opt for anger, it is never a wise move. So stop being ill-tempered. Think before you act. Learn to control your temper in God’s way.
Advice: Tolerate, endure and persevere during hard times.
“If you are sensible, you will control your temper. When someone wrongs you, it is a great virtue to ignore it.” Proverbs 19:11
“When angry, do not sin; do not ever let your wrath (your exasperation, your fury or indignation) last until the sun goes down.” Ephesians 4:26
Just take up the challenges that’s coming your way
They’ll bring you good and that’s for sure
And you’ll see yourself grow
In the years to come
Give in your best; don’t give up the possibilities
Be prepared for the best; never for the worst
Put aside all things and run towards the goal
Be positive, for the highest mountain you can conquer
Because this is life we ought to live
Now is your chance to pick up the broken pieces
And get back up on your feet!
It’s time to fight what they called “impossible”
Cause success is just right here waiting for you…
Don’t back down!
This is dedicated to those who are facing life
challenges and couldn’t care less bout the outcomes or are about to relinquish.
So hey, you are gonna regret if you back off right now. Stand up and take the
fight! So what if you failed this time, there’s more opportunities knocking on
your door. Think big, think wide, think positive! God’s with you… All the best!
;)
